May 31, 2025.
The Art of Self-Expression: How to Develop Your Personal Style
Read time - 5 min.
Let’s talk about personal style, something everyone’s chasing in all the wrong places.
Many even give up.
Not because it’s hard.
Not because of a lack of talent.
Or lack of time.
The challenge goes much deeper.
But the solution to your personal style brings solutions to many other areas of your life. It’s not just a process of expression. It’s also a process of liberation.
And it’s worth all your time. Worth not giving up.
So, go get it.
Today, I’m sharing 3 ways to express your freedom.
FIRST
Skill growth doesn’t guarantee style. It only gives you tools to express it. Your style isn’t your skills. It’s who you are. It is you.
Your emotions.
Your thoughts.
Your experience.
Your vision.
Your style isn’t found in tutorials. It lives inside you. So replace all the time wandering with stillness. In silence, the door will open for you. Only then use your skills.
To draw your world.
To sing about your emotions.
To write about your experience.
Then you will speak about your essence. It’s just yours. Personal. That’s when your style is born.
This is a process. It can be difficult at the beginning. Because maybe you won’t like what you hide. But you have the chance to change it. To shape your life as you want.
Because your style depends on it. And how you live your life.
Second
People chase perfection, but the universe loves discipline. When you combine discipline with creativity, you can build whatever you want.
Take a little from here and there. Improve your skills. But remember. Great artists like Picasso were not perfect in drawing, they were 100% authentic.
That is where you should spend your time.
Study yourself. Express yourself. Don’t overthink the how. Focus on whether it’s real. Whether it’s yours. Whether you feel it.
You will change.
Your style will change.
That’s normal. Just have fun.
third
Don’t be afraid of mistakes. That’s how every challenge works.
When you accept it, you take away its power. It’s no longer a challenge, it is feedback.
See mistakes as the path you have to walk. To make it easier, focus on the journey, not the outcome. Just enjoy the process.
Don’t create to get something.
Don’t create to be accepted.
Don’t create so they say you’re good, but to feel good.
That’s why creativity is so special. It has the power to create the most beautiful thing in the world out of nothing. And that can be your style. Your life.
But in each one, my essence remained.
I changed my thoughts, and with them my expression. But behind every version of me was… still me.
I used to think that was a weakness. No, it’s a strength.
I grow. I learn. I’m better.
So, You don’t need to find your style. Your style will find you. But only if you keep showing up.
Just:
Be yourself.
Say what you feel.
Don’t obsess over the outcome.
Just create. Every day.
When flow appears, pressure disappears.
Don’t let your dreams die. Be brave enough to jump in. Be patient. Believe. And it will happen.
Stop scrolling. Start learning. Join my SUBSTACK.
Second
Share this Article on: